Life Patterns in Your Way

by Dr. Michael J. Duckett on February 7, 2010

We all live our specific patterns in life. We get up at approximately the same time, sleep in the same spot on the bed, go to sleep and get up at just about the same time, eat the same basic meals, drink out of the same cup, and on and on the patterns go.

The patterns and stress are very similar, even though some situations are different. We also live with patterns that may produce the confusion in our lives. For example, a person who has money problems lives a life pattern of money problems.

People need to change their patterns if they want something different to happen in their life. Our outcomes are based upon the results of our patterns.

Although life, finances, health, and relationships may seem to be completely out of your control, in reality, your patterns will predetermine what you can expect.

If someone wants to improve their finances, the individual needs to change the money pattern from producing financial strain to producing financial abundance.

Also, if a person wants to improve health, they need to change the health pattern from producing dis-ease to one of producing vibrancy and health.

If someone wants to improve a relationship (or start one), the individual needs to change the love pattern from producing self centered love to producing harmony with another.

As I mentioned, most people want one thing but they are living their lives with contradicting patterns to their desire. Are the patterns you are producing in life what you want or are they producing more of what you do not want? What patterns are you producing?

When you identify what you want, you can change your patterns to align with your desire.

You will be amazed at how quickly things begin to manifest when you make the corrections to your life patterns.

If you don’t change the way you’re doing things, you’ll only produce more of what you already got up to this point in life. That is the “secret” that any successful person will gladly share with you.

Most people will live in a pattern of misery rather than make necessary changes to create their dream life. Change is not comfortable.

When we want to change something, it takes self discipline. To say, “I am no longer living my life or handling my personal matters that way” is self discipline. This is what many people are seeking, but avoid implementing. They avoid the implementation process of change by only reading books, attending seminars, and make good intentions.

To sink this point deep into your Mental Coding, here is a good exercise. Answer the following:

1. What do you want in life right now?
2. What changes would be required of you to make this happen?
3. Are you willing to “pay the price” and make these life pattern changes?
4. When will you make these changes? Be honest and realistic with yourself here. Only make this statement if you’re willing to back it up once-and-for-all.

The famous German actor, Stefan Rudolph say it perfectly when he made the following statement: “Once failure leads to change….change will then lead toward success.”

When you begin to change, refuse to look at your changes as losing anything. A person who goes on a diet to lose weight has a much more difficult struggle than a person who changes their patterns to gain better health. Instead, concentrate on what you are gaining.

Now you’re one step closer to upgrading your life to the next level.

Sincerely,
Dr. Michael J. Duckett

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